I’m a 17 year old bisexual girl. I have a friend that I’ve been close with since 8th grade. She just came out to me about a month ago. She said she’s not sure if she’s bisexual or lesbian. She started to flirt a little and ask me some questions that related to her being interested in finding out what she is for sure. She spent an evening with me and my family. We had dinner and then we went to my room to watch a movie. While I set up the movie she laid in the middle of my bed and when I went to sit next to her she got closer. She then asked me if I could massage her back with aloe from her sunburn from the Cheer leading car wash earlier that day. I did and she seemed to enjoy it. Then she moved to lay in the middle of the bed. She told me that even though she smelled like aloe she wanted me to come over and she gave me a lil smirk. I moved over to her and I didn’t know if she wanted to cuddle or what. When it came time to leave, I walked her to her car and she gave me a hug then it seemed like she was gonna go for a kiss. But she stopped and gave me another hug. She really hasn’t talked to me much since then. I don’t know if she likes me or if I was being too shy or what. Please help me with this. I really like this girl and I think she kinda likes me too. How do I know what to do? And what to say?
It sounds to me that she was interested and she was trying to put herself out there but when you didn't take the bait she was probably embarrassed thinking she made a fool out of herself.
If you want to pursue a relationship with this girl then the ball is in your court. Invite her over again. Ask her how she is doing with figuring out her sexuality. Tell her if she is curious to kiss a girl that you can help her out. :)