I’m gay but recently I have had feelings for women. But they aren’t sexual feelings I’m sure of that much. This may sound weird but I was bored and looking at porn (as you do) and I came across a video of a woman spanking a man and I found that more let’s just say ‘stimulating’ than a video of a man spanking a man. Am I bi or gay of what? Please help.
Justin
Your "enthusiastic" response to the scene you have described is no cause for alarm. While it is true that the scene in question comprises images of a scantily clad or totally nude woman and that those images do not completely repulse you, the focus of the scene is clearly on the submissive male involved in heterosexual role playing. It is quite understandable that a gay male would be sexually aroused by images of an attractive, straight male in his natural habitat, which quite logically includes the presence of a woman as a sexual partner.
Your question, moreover, makes it clear that you are devoid of any sexual and emotional connection to women. It will not shock you when I remind you that straight and bisexual men do feel sexually and emotionally drawn to women; and I say, "Hallelujah!" Most people alive today would not be here if it weren’t for the lovemaking that results from that attraction.
You are as gay today as you ever were.
I wish you fair winds and following seas.
AMW
Well, I don't think it is a bi thang. I think you are curious about a new world of sexual exploration. There are stores and sites with this type of information.
Val
You say you don't have sexual feelings for women, but you do have feelings for women. It is normal to feel attraction to the opposite sex, and still identify as gay. I say don't worry about the labels because sexuality is fluid. If you predominantly identify as gay, then you are gay.
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