I have met a guy on a adult website that says he is straight. The problem is that he contacted me for sex and I am gay. We have met and have a good time together. I am 56 and he is 60. I am not out. I have really fallen for this guy and the way he talks he really enjoys my company and I love getting together with him. He tells me we have to be discreet as he does not want his daughter who lives nearby to get suspicious-why would she have reason to be suspicious. I can’t stop thinking about this guy and I have made my feelings known to him. I hope I am not wasting my time, am I?