Is there a way to train my sexuality? I’m gay and have been out for a long time and, at first, I was into anybody who was male. But now that I’ve gained some life experience, I’ve begun to understand what my preferences would be for a long-term relationship and they are much more based in personality than anything. The catch is, I rarely find anyone whose perspnality is compatable with mine who isn’t straight. For some reason the only people I’m attracted to on an emotional level are, invariably, straigt men. Is there a way to fix this or turn it off? Can I train my sexuality so that I dont find any straigt man attractive? I feel like this is a chronic problem for me and all that’s become of this odd disposition of mine is stress and heartache. Help?