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Hiya. So, I’ve been with my boyfriend officially for about a month. However, we’ve been sort of a couple for 4 or 5 months now. I just decided that I wanted to make him mine, and no-one else’s. And I’ve never been happier with anyone in my life. Here’s the dilemma- and god, I can’t believe I’m asking this on yahoo answers: I’m… rather innocent, to say the least. I’ve never had sex, or even made out with anyone before him (We were kissing and stuff before we actually decided to date). It was most likely just because I’ve never been attracted to women, and it took me a while to realize I was attracted to men. But, he wants sex now. That’s not a problem, I’m 19, and I think I’m old enough to do so. He’s 18, and, you could say that I’m the more dominant one in the relationship. I want to give him what he wants, and I know he won’t just take it from me because he doesn’t want to take advantage of my kindness (I give in really easily). I’m ready for this, I know I am. I’m just too nervous to take any initiative and make that first step.  So, I guess that’s what I need a little help with. I love this kid. More than anyone will ever know. But I don’t know what he even likes, sexually. We’ve never gone THAT far before. Yes, I’ve asked him about his kinks, but he’s more of a show than tell sort of person. And, he can’t show me if we never get there, so. Ideas for that first step? I mean, what should I even do to get us going? Is there something that makes a guy know you’re ready or want to go for it?

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