Hi, I am a gay guy who likes ”straight looking” guys… When gay guys try to flirt with me I avoid giving them the attention they want and as a result I’m never with ”someone”. I am 22 years old, I still haven’t said to anyone that I’m gay and I don’t know why I should… I kinda like my life the way it is with my straight friends but in some cases where I feel more attached to one of them I feel like I am doomed to never express my feelings to him in fear that I will lose him as a friend or even turn him against me. I don’t feel attraction for gay men or at least for those who make it ”obvious”. What I should do? How can I know if the guy that I like likes me too? Coming out is not an option. 🙁