Hey there, I will try to keep this simple. I just came out of a hetero relationship, that crashed and burned because of lies, just turned 40, and am thinking about things I haven’t done in my life that I wanna do before I get old. I have had limited experiences with other males with the exception of one lover who was wonderful and a long term fwb. I have never even dated two different people in my life. I feel like I need to live a little and get off the bench and experience some life. I have abstained or practiced safe sex for most of my life, not 100% but most of. I have been tested and I am healthy and ok. I enjoy mutual most and like the bottom. I have always had the fantasy of being with a male top couple. I recently met two guys. They have a poz friendly, bareback, 3 ways with friends of theirs from time to time. This of course raises concerns with me. They told me their friends are hiv undetectable and the two of them are negative. I’ve read stuff on poz and other things that state it is statistically a zero percent chance to spread the disease when you are undetectable. I know what the articles say and what the chances are but I want a real world answer from people that live it. I know nothing is 100% and all that but would like to know your thoughts. They do not like condoms and don’t want to use them and to be honest I would like to go “bareback” with them and cross this off my list. Always thought of it and want to really do it.  Let me know your thoughts