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Ok so I’m a 13 year old girl and I have been having this MAJOR crush on this girl. We have known each other for about a year, have played on the same volleyball team and we talk and we hung out a few times. It feels like every day we are getting closer and closer. She probably doesn’t notice this but I do. Every time I look at her I just can’t stop but having these feeling for her. Like sometimes when I look at her she smiles and just kind of looks me up and down (and not in the way like “oooo I like what you’re wearing today!” Kind of look). I think she MIGHT have the same feelings for me but I’m pretty sure she is straight. Because she dresses very feminine and is popular (like me). So the odds of her being gay too are pretty slim. FYI I am not out to any of my family members however, I kind of said something to my friends when I was on facebook that I was bisexual. Now my mom and two brothers suspect that I’m gay. So anyways she is REALLY confusing me. I don’t know if she is gay or not! And I want to tell her about these feelings. But I don’t know how to approach her about it. Could someone please help me like what I should say to her in this kind of situation. ANY replays help! Thank you soooo much!

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  1. Val Feb 15, 2013 at 20:36

    Tanks for the question. So just because someone doesn’t fit the stereotype, I wouldn’t necessarily assume that they are not gay, afterall it sounds like you don’t fit the stereotype either, and frankly nowadays a lot of people don’t. So anyway if your ok with other people at school finding out your bi or gay, or curious, then you can just ask her what her preferences are. That should be an easy enough ice breaker.

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