I have been in an Lesbian relationship (my first) for the last two years. I had just ended my marriage, after many years, because I realized that he would never change, and I started loving myself.  I went out to find Lesbian friend, knowing that it was time to explore my true wants, that had in repressed all my life due to culture. The first women I became very good friends with, 4 months later hit on me, & I fell in love first time in my life. I wish someone could tell me way is it so difficult with a mature woman that can’t respect my belief about my need to continue to dedicate time with my family, including my ex, who was always very codependent on me.  I want to love her, but not be in a committed relationship, because when we enjoy being together, going out with our friends, having fun, or making love. Seems to be fine. Until I need to do my own things. Then it changes all in a minute, I can’t stand her screaming, always emotional, &  fighting. I wish I could just go back to being friends, because I love her, and have fun with 35% of the time can be amazing. What should I do??