I was just wondering something, My wife is almost 9 years older than me, and we have been married now for almost two years, I am 31 and she will be 40 very soon, when we first got together we had sex all the time, we couldn’t keep our hands off each other, now its like I can’t even get it but maybe 2 times a month, I get tired of asking her because I feel like I am always the one that is wanting it. What do I need to do to get her to want me again like she did before?