My partner and I have been together for 8 yrs. He recently has reconnected with his ex (18 yrs ago). Now I find out he was trying to meet his ex for a movie while I was out of town working. His emails were very straight forward. I confronted him about it and told him it would end our relationship. He apologized and said he would end it. He assured me he loves me. However, we haven’t had sex in 6 weeks and he avoids talking about our relationship at all. I’m 49, 6’1″, 184lbs, work out and keep my body, mind, and appearance up. What is going on? Does he still want me? Any suggestions will be appreciated.
Val
Thanks for the question. This happens to a lot of people, so don't take it personally, although I realize it is very personal to you. A few things stand out as red flags here. If you had an active sex life up until recently, then something is clearly changing in your relationship. If he won't talk to you about it, then I might suggest counseling as an option. Communicating with another person while you're away also suggests an air of secrecy. Although, he can very well, make plans and reconnect with an old friend with your blessing, only to have that relationship turn into something more romantic. And, telling him he cannot see a particular person, can go either way as well. It seems the issue here, is what is going on in the relationship that is causing this havoc. It is time to re-evaluate with him, and possibly with professional help, if you two are agreeable to it, to see if your relationship can survive.
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