My partner and I have been having sex for a few weeks. When we first decided to, he wanted to be the “top” and I’ve never been a “bottom.” It was fine, but once we stopped for about a week, I began to have sharp pain while using the bathroom. I finally went to the doctor’s and she told me that my colon was really red. My question is: how many other guys have experienced this? And if you have (or have not) what is a way so that when we do engage in sex again, my colon stays “out of the picture?”