Hi, After 20 yrs of marriage, my husband left and came out to me as gay.  I was devastated, but deep down I knew.  Our children supported him from the moment they found out.  My ex and I are good friends now.  The “problem” I face now is I have had feelings for women my whole life and met a wonderful, caring woman whom I love, it is a secret, and I’m so afraid my children will find out and need therapy for life!  The thought of having both your parents come out as gay I’m afraid would hurt them, not to mention my family and friends.  I can’t go back, I do love this woman (she is openly gay) and when I’m with her I could care less if the world knew, but I’m so torn.  Any insight? Thank you