Hello, I found out my husband was posting Craigslist ads in the men seeking men for a year and a half. When I confronted him he said he started it to “screw” with gay people. He said he got a sick enjoyment from it. He said that was why he started, and he kept doing it because he liked the compliments. I need to know if this is possible for a straight man to do this or if he is bisexual. He loves to have sex with me all the time. He says he is straight and isn’t attracted to men. He claims to dislike them actually. Is he telling me the truth that he is straight or is he bisexual? Please help me.
Val
This is an interesting question and an excellent example of the depth of internalized homophobia that a person can face and how it influences their character and actions. It shows quite plainly one persons struggles and experiences. Thank you for sharing the question openly so that all our readers can benefit from it.
It is quite a well known fact that the most ardent anti supporters of the LGBTQ community are in fact latent homosexuals. There are many examples of public figures who were publicly anti gay, who then ended up being homosexual. The underlying core of the problem is internalized homophobia.
It is also worth mentioning here that it has been said that sexuality is like a prism. There are many shades to the prism and that many people aren't just straight or gay but somewhere in between. In summary, anybody who dedicates over a year of their life to "screwing with gay people" but enjoys their compliments is an oxymoron.
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