Hey, I’m 16 years old and I’m a bisexual boy:P Recently, I’ve been really attracted to this boy who’s one year below me and like I’m really, really attracted to him. I haven’t come out fully yet, like I’ve told two of my best friends and they accepted me for who I am. I was really happy that they did. But, the dilemma is, I don’t really know this boy and I really want to form a “relationship” with him but I know it’s not going to happen if I don’t know him. So, I was definitely planning to become or try to become mutual friends with him first before I do anything. I want to know what you think his reaction will be when the time comes and I say I “like” him. An assumption or inference is great at this point I don’t really care haha:) Like it’s become the hardest thing to think about lately. I’m really good at making friends but telling someone that I “like” him and he doesn’t know I’m bi is a completely different story. Do you think you can help? And any opinions, comments, or advice is greatly appreciated Thank you so much for your time:)
Unless you're one of those guys that fall for the complete opposite, I don't think you will have a problem. You have a sound plan, seem like you're a very engaging young man at school, and my guess is that he may have similar qualities to you and you will find common ground. From there a relationship can take hold. But you are correct, you must first get to know him, and see if there is common ground. Best of luck!