OK… Am I bi, or just curious. When I was 13 I had a fort. An older boy down the street came by and we started to make out… it started to go too far and another friend came by so we stopped. Then I started to wear my mom’s clothes. Years passed and I got married. My wife and I went to a couple of bars in Tampa. One was a gay bar where I kissed a transvestite. Lastly at an adult theater I started something with another man…. but got scared and ran out. I have been fantasizing about guys, she-males, girls and cross-dressers. I want to find out but… I’m married to another woman who would not like the thought of it. What point did you decide? I know it’s not a choice but what was it that made you say…. ohhhhh.
Val
People come out at different times and under different circumstances. The best answer I can give you is that when you feel that you are living a lie, and you want to feel free, you will start to come out. But please, since you are married, you must first remain honest and truthful with your wife.
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