I am a married women, ten years, but also bisexual and have found the woman I want to make a commitment to, outside of my marriage. We already exchanged simple rings which we wear on our right hands, but I was wondering if a commitment ceremony of some type would be appropriate? The notion is sweet, non invasive in our marriages, and we’d like to declare our love for each other, we’ve already waited this out for so long, so is it ok to declare that commitment to each other even though we’re married women???
Val
When you each got married, you said your vows and a made a commitment to your current spouses. So your commitment is with your current spouse.
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I would like to respectfully but heartily disagree with Val’s answer. OP’s question seems to be one of etiquette not one of “is it ok to have multiple relationships” as it sounds like both OP and her female partner have discussed the idea with their respective spouses and there is no objections. If that is truly the case and all parties involved are able to come to an agreement on the terms of the relationship, I see nothing wrong with a commitment ceremony. Healthy, loving relationships of all kinds should be celebrated, not hidden away.