I’m a 21 year old male and I accepted that I liked guys about four years ago. I have never really dated a guy, though I’ve had 2 pretty hard core crushes on them. I have dated a few women, though it never seemed to click 100%, sexually. It’s made me question if I’m gay or not because I started to notice that lately, I only think about men when masturbating. I’m not really afraid of coming out as gay if that’s what I am, but I am afraid of doing it and then somewhere down the line, I realize I like women more. I know that sounds like an excuse, but I really think its because I haven’t dated a guy and confirmed to myself that this is what I want. I don’t really like receiving anal sex (only done that once,) and even giving it has start to become a little boring. To make matters even more complicated, I’m never attracted to openly gay or flamboyant guys. At all. Is it normal for gay/bi guys to not be attracted to the sex part of a relationship unless there’s an emotional attachment there too? Is that still bi-sexuality?