I’m a 19 year old male and I’m bisexual and I tend to like guys more. I came out last year to everyone (My senior year of High School) but I had been out to friends and certain family members since I was 17. My question or problem is that I think I scare off a lot of people from the LGBT community because of the way I dress, carry myself and attitude I give off. I tend to wear metal shirts, I have my ears and septum pierced, I workout a lot, I’ve got more then a fair share of scars, basically lots of people say I look,sound and act like a hardass and I mean I kind of do. I’m never anything but nice but I’ve been told on multiple occasions that I intimidate people all the same, I really do want to be more approachable by people in the gay community but I don’t want to give up who I really am either, I’ve even gone to the LGBT club on campus but even there I’m met with wary looks, Is there anything I can do to be more approachable without having to change myself?