I met this gay guy through my sister and he became my friend. I’m a 28 year old girl and he told me one day after knowing him for 5 months that he had feelings for me. I didn’t think twice about it because he said he was gay. Then one day he told me he couldn’t hide it anymore. So we started dating for 4 months, things were great! Then one day he started acting weird and distant. I fell in love with him and just recently he dumped me with no mercy. He cursed me out and called me names and even hit me. He told me he faked everything we had and that he wanted nothing to do with me . So I left him alone. Then just recently he texted me and told me he wanted to be friends. I can’t be friends with someone I love. Can someone please tell me how I should take this?
J.
Don't look back. Keep it pushing. Why allow someone to hurt you again with no mercy? Forget about it. You would be a fool to go back. Unless you like getting your feeling hurt and your ok with him hurting you over and over again. He's gay and if you let someone talk long enough they will tell you exactly who they are.... And you need to believe that! Good luck!
Val
Anyone who would verbally and physically harm you is not deserving of a relationship with you, or anyone else. Consider yourself lucky that you found out sooner rather than later.
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