Is he worth it? Okay Im Bi, but Im not out, Im 22. Im willing to come out one day for the right person if its a guy, if not and I find the love of my life to be a woman I probably will never tell anyone (maybe the woman i fall in love with). I have had past relationships with guys and it was purely sex. I have had relationship with women and it was both sexual and emotional and I liked it but the spark past. I am currently single but I have been seeing a guy who is also bisexual but he has a girfriend. It started out as sex, and the first time i didnt know he had a girlfriend but to be honest it probably wouldnt have prevented it. I am a 100% believer in commitment but something about this guy just has me giddy and willing to do things that no one else has been able to make me do. We are spending more time together and doing more things that couples do, not just sex but the sex is magnificent!! I think he might be the one Ive been looking for but he is in a relationship with a girlfriend that he has been with for 3 years, and we have only been doing this for 3 months now. I never really fall for a person until I know their personality and get to know them, and Im quite smitten, and he is the only person im seeing. I want more from the relationship now but scared that he isnt as willing as i am to commit to his honest feeling (and god knows growing up in the household I grew up in, coming out would cause a big commotion and possibly ties to my father so im not that decisive on coming out). But I do feel the connection between us and Im afraid that he wont want to commit anything further if I tell him how I feel, So should I continue to do things like I am now and hopefully come around and commit more to a real relationship, should I continue as I am and keep doors open for others, should i tell him how I feel upfront and wait for him to make a decision, should I just end it the thing here before things get more complexed and end with even more heartache, or is there any other solution?