I’ve never though of myself as gay or bisexual, but lately I’ve realized my best friend is making me fall for him. Ever since he slept over for the first time, he’s acted very unusually. It started when he randomly asked me to massage his feet. At first I resisted, but sure enough I ended up doing it anyway. He didn’t want me to stop, even after three hours of doing it. He’d move his feet away from me as someone walked in the room, then he’d want me to continue secretly under a blanket or when they left. He’d be eating candy and since I was occupied with rubbing his feet, he’d try and hand feed it to me, which was very awkward. This continued for a couple of days. He started getting touchy, rolling on top of me when I’m trying to go to bed, would force me to wrestle him, constantly ask me question about my love life like, “Do you have a girlfriend yet?”,  this has started to make me question his sexuality. At first I thought he was just messing around and just acting like some guys do. Then I realized I wanted him to actually like me like that. So I started thinking about what I should do. He has a girlfriend which he texts constantly during the day and he usually doesn’t respond to my texts even though I know his phone is stuck to him all day. It’s only when we’re actually in the same room together when things get weird, so this made me think he’s only playing around with me. First I’d think when we’re together, “Could he actually like me?” then later I’d think, “Nah, he has a girlfriend and he doesn’t really try to contact me other then when we see each other in person.” 1. Do you think this is typical behavior for a guy, or is he bi, even if he doesn’t know it himself? 2. Is he just playing around with me? 3. What should I do now that he’s made me all confused and doubtful of myself? 4. How do I handle this now that I realize that I actually want him to like me and can’t stop thinking about him? As far as I know, he doesn’t act like this when any of our other male friends, yet he acts like the typical guy checking girls out all the time, even when with me. I realize when we’re alone he acts differently with me then in public.