I am a married middle aged guy in a very happy relationship. I did experience some homosexual times when I was a young man, which when I think about them now it can be a nice thought. Recently I’ve been watching gay porn and I’m starting to prefer it over straight porn. When I see good porn of two naked guys making love gets me extremely horny. Could I be a latent homosexual? I have not gone out looking for guys at gay bars but the thought is there. I do love my wife and we do have a good life. What do you think?
Kelly
I don't think there is anything latent about it. You've had homosexual times as you called them. If you are looking for a label then you are bisexual. BUT you are married to a woman now - you took a vow I presume to be committed. Being gay or bisexual is no excuse for cheating. Just as it's not right to cheat on your wife with the hot secretary at work it's not right to cheat on her with some hot guy from the gym.
If you love your wife as you say then my suggestion is to think back to what it was about her that made you horny. Put your focus on her and stop watching gay porn. You are building that part of your life up to something more than it is. The grass isn't always greener on the other side. If you have a good life as you say then don't go messing it up over some fantasy.
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