Ok so here it goes, when I masturbate I think about men more than women.. As of late I am only thinking about men when I do it, and I watch gay porn.. I get more turned on when I see a naked guy but I can still get turned on when I am with a girl. On rare occasions I do think about men when I am with a girl a couple of times… so it really comes down to I think about sex with men more but can still get turned on by women in sexual situations. Am I gay or bi?
AMW
I think you are on the path. If you are thinking about it and your body responds to images of men then I would say, yep.
Justin
You are not straight. Straight men's sexual fantasies do not focus primarily on encounters with other men, but yours do.
You are not gay. Gay men are not sexually attracted to women, but you are.
You are blessed to be bisexual. On an emotional and sexual level, you are attracted to both men and women. It is essential to remind you and other readers that bisexuals do not require one or more partners of each sex in order to be emotionally and sexually fulfilled. Bisexuals are just as capable of finding total emotional and sexual fulfillment within the confines of a monogamous relationship as people of any other sexual orientation are. Straight people in a monogamous relationship require one partner of the opposite sex; gay people in a monogamous relationship require one partner of the same sex. The only difference between bisexual people in a monogamous relationship and straight or gay people in a monogamous relationship is that bisexual people require one partner of either the same sex or the opposite sex.
I thank you for your thoughtful question. It will undoubtedly help other readers who are similarly facing confusion about the complicated issue of sexual orientation.
I wish you fair winds and following seas.
Val
If you are attracted to both sexes, then you are bisexual.
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