Ok, so I’m a 14 year old boy and i just turned gay. There’s this boy. People say he’s gay, at first I didn’t believe he was. Then my ex-girlfriend asked him if he was gay. He said yes. Then my ex told me he said he liked me and he needed to know me more. Every time I have a chance to talk to him I freeze up. Can you tell me how to talk to him? I like him a lot. He’s the first boy I’ve liked since I turned gay. I also wanna find out, when the time comes. How do i ask him out?
Val
Don't freeze up or he'll run the other way. Find something in common that you can both connect to, so it doesn't come off like a pick-up at a bar. To break the ice, you might want to plan something with a couple of friends, like go to the movies or something, and ask him along. Then, just be your charming self.
J.
Ok Mr. just turned gay,
That always sounds so funny to me....You just turned gay. I guess with the youth these days it's a choice?? Well, if you are really interested in talking to this guy and asking him out, I think you should have your girlfriend ask him out for you so that you don't get your feeling hurt, just in case he says no. Keep it fun and a game until you are comfortable enough to say something to him. What your feeling is called puppy love. Butterflies in your stomach and feeling all scared. Very Cute. Trust me that too shall pass. You will get up enough nerves in a short while.
Good luck.
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