I am 14 and I have recently come out to 4 of my friends and have never had a boyfriend (which is a bit sad lol) I recently found out that a friend of mine that I have known for 5 years is bi. I have a really big crush on him and so far people only have hints of knowing that he is that way. I really want to ask him out but I think he is still coming to terms with being bi and I have told him that I know and I promised not to tell anyone. He doesn’t know that I am gay and I guess that if people find out that we are gay or bi because we both live in a small somewhat conservative town people with treat us with hostility. I was just wondering how can hint that I am gay and then ask him if he wants to go out with me without having people know about it. Please help!!!