So pretty much I’m in love with my best friend, he’s 15 and I’m 18. When we first started hanging out, he would call/text me for no apparent reason, which I loved. But now he never answers my phone calls or texts me back, he still comes over every weekend. While he’s over we do normal things such as watch movies, play video games or go outside, and we also do not so normal stuff, like we wrestle, but when we wrestle we always grab things, if ya know what I mean. He seems to enjoy it, whenever we’re watching a movie or he’s playing a video game, I put my arm around him or scratch his back. More recently he’s been letting me touch his bare bottom, some times he likes it when I touch him, other times he tells me to stop. He’ll say it’s because he’s hot or his back hurts, and other times he’s the one sitting on my back. I notice he seems to do kind of a humping kind of motion when he’s laying on me, another thing he does is he’ll pretend to fall asleep and I’ll just lay there and hug him. He’s always asking my if I’m bi or gay, but I always say no because I’m afraid I’ll lose him. Another thing is he says he’ll say he likes a girl and he suddenly stops talking to them. I love him so much it hurts, we are absolutely perfect for each other, we like the same things, and we have almost everything in common. I honestly think he loves me back, but being only 15, not sure of what he wants at the same time. I also think he’s afraid of what will happen if we do get together. I would never hurt him, I would protect him from anybody. He has low self esteem, he’s always saying he’s fat and that his penis is small. I try to encourage him as much as I can. He’s even said I love you on one occasion, and he said that he was gay on another occasion, but right after he pretended like he never said it. Everyday he’s not mine and I don’t know if he feels the same way, it hurts me. I don’t know what to do with myself during the day. I’m no longer in school so I don’t get to see him then either, I would really appreciate your insight. Thank you.
Val
Although you are only 3 years apart in age, you are considered an adult and he is considered a minor, as the various jurisdictions in the United States interpret the age range between 16 and 18, so you must not pursue relations with him. By what you have written, it seems you realize that he is less experienced than you, so it would be incumbent on you not to pursue any more relations with the young man anyway. If he truly does have feelings for you, as you do for him, then the wait period won't matter.
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