Val

If you prefer the company of men over women, both physically and emotionally, then yes, you are gay. If you just like playing with different sex toys, then no, you are not gay.

Justin

No. Your choice of sex toys does not make you gay, and don’t hesitate to let a special woman in your life know about this particular interest. You might find that she is more than willing to be... "accommodating".

I wish you fair winds and following seas.