Hi My guy friend is bisexual and we have been hanging for a six month now. A month ago he told me that he likes me and he would like to spend more time with me, but all that between us I mean not a single person knows about us. I don’t know what are we now are we together are we just friends and I don’t know how to ask him that cause I’m his first guy ever (we didn’t even have sex we fool around but every time I mention sex he got a reason not to have but he can’t stop taking about doing it with me) anyway I’m the first guy he kissed in his life, he’s new to the sex with a guy thing so I don’t wanna freak him out, scare him or rush him into something anyway I can tell that he kinda likes our female friend their becoming closer and closer, she knows about us but he doesn’t know that she knows and she’s in a relationship and I know she would even consider doing anything with him but I don’t want to be the guy who is available when the girl is not I wanna be the only person he wants but I don’t know how to tell him that Should I keep my distance and see what he might do with her or tell him straight up how I feel and how can I start
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Sounds complicated to be honest. If I were in your shoes, I would tell him that at some level he needs to take a decision, especially if you are really thinking about getting serious with him and him with you. I would not feel comfortable sharing a guy, not matter what his excuse is. Or, the other options would be to just accept the situation, be his “buddy” and just be happy if it ever happens. At the end, it is up to you to make the right move. Personally, I think you should start thinking about what you want to do and you need to let your friend know as well. Because you might end up getting hurt because you have expectations but the other guy has something totally different in mind. Honesty is key to all good relation- friendships or more 😉