Im a Gay man and I’m in a new relationship. We have agreed to a commitment not to date other people. My BF loves to dance and has not been dancing in a long time. He is going to a large metro gay club with straight friends to go dancing. He asked me to go but I have a child and can’t go that night. He says their is nothing wrong with him going and dancing with other gay men. I say if you just want to dance go to a straight club. He is the best thing that ever happened to me and I don’t think he would cheat. Am I worried about nothing? Why does he have to dance with other gay men?
Val
You are correct. You're also damned if you do and damned if you don't if you tell him not to go. If you tell him it's ok, then you open yourself up to him meeting someone, and if you tell him don't go, then you become the bad person shackling him. All you can do is tell him how you feel and hope he makes the right decision.
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