I have a lot of resentment toward women, so much that I hate them. I can’t see myself having actual intercourse with a man though, I am very confused. But I know it is more than just sex too. How do you know that you are gay? Please don’t tell me you just know, I don’t.
Val
You are correct in that sexual identity is more than just about sex. Unfortunately, we live in a sexual centric world and the sexual act is what people can’t seem to get their minds off of. If you feel that you cannot see yourself having sex with another man, then I would gently suggest a good introspective assessment of your own perceptions of the LGBT lifestyle, and how you feel about two men having sex. A similar assessment of your views about women should follow.
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