I’m having gay sex this summer for the first time with someone experienced and the only thing I’m really concerned about is being clean. I’ve looked on the internet about it and people say just taking a dump is fine, but if I check with my finger, my finger almost always comes out not clean. The only thing that seems to work is taking off the shower head and washing myself out, but I don’t always have that next to me whenever I want to have sex. So how can I have sex with this guy (over 2 weeks) and be sure that I am always clean? I’m worried something will happen and it’s my worst nightmare 🙁