I’m a divorced male with bi experience in high school. Heteneero for 22 years and now divorced. I met a great man who is sub. How can I better fulfill his sub needs as a Dom top. I’m a caring loving man and the thought of going to far with someone I care for so much scares me. I’ve become more decisive in bed and delegate my needs as well as anticipate his as a reward type thing. It may take a while to differentiate play time and real time as acting for pleasure.  Its important to me to try and be more for him as he is everything to me.  Thanks !