How do I tell someone that people think is gay that I like him? When I was in the play last year, the boys got ready in the locker room. I’ve liked this guy for a while now but when we were all in the locker room, he got a boner! And I was like boo-yea. But I want to be there for him but he denies being gay. How can I help him through it or ask him if he is gay?