AMW

This usually happens to lesbians. In the lesbian community it is called lesbian bed death. I am not a professional but it sounds like you are not happy with you so you may be transferring this unhappiness onto him. It feels like you don't think you deserve his attention because you are overweight. What do you think you need to do to feel better about you? This may be the reason that you feel non-sexual.

Also, you may not be attracted to him. Yes, he sounds young, hot and sexy but there may not be a connection. You may need a connection to feel aroused. He reads like he may be a trophy for you and you may be very proud of that but again there may be no connection so that may curb your arousal.

Good luck. Go for a long walk and think about it. The answer is in you. I think you know that already.

Val

Sometimes it's not just about what's on the outside, but what's on the inside as well.

Justin

You have a hot, young boyfriend who is simply mad about you; and he just can’t keep his hands off you. In light of that situation, one would think that you’d be having the time of your life these days; for it is the wet dream of every paunchy, balding, and average looking forty-nine-year-old man to be showered with affection by a handsome, fit, and physically demonstrative twenty-five-year-old. However, what should be a dream for a middle aged man like you has quickly turned into your worst nightmare because instead of working overtime to help you sexually satisfy your highly prized stallion before he starts wandering into greener pastures, your penis, prostate, testosterone, and libido have all shockingly failed you at a time when you need them to be shifting into high gear if you are to deliver an optimum performance that will leave “Buck” wanting more.

Your nightmare is caused by your stubborn refusal to listen to what your intuition is telling you. One’s intuition is that small, inner voice that he hears and feels in his mind, heart, and gut. Yours is desperately trying to give you some much needed advice about what you need to realize before your sanity and good health can be restored. You should always abide by your intuition, for it is God speaking to you. It is no wonder that your penis, prostate, testosterone, and libido are now conspiring against you as you struggle to maintain your relationship with your boyfriend. Those key components of your body’s sexual engine are connected to your intuition, and they can sense that you are ignoring its divine guidance. When you elect to ignore your intuition, your body is programmed to issue strong warning signals in order to get your attention about the need to alter your conduct. The flaccid state of your sad, dysfunctional penis is just one such signal; and you should not continue to overlook the meaning of that important message.

Almost any objective observer of your situation can comprehend what your intuition is trying to tell you: your current boyfriend is an inappropriate partner for you because you were thinking with your penis instead of your head when you selected him, and even your penis understands the absurdity of that situation.

When you get your life in line with what your intuition is telling you loudly and clearly, your health and mental outlook will improve dramatically.

I wish you fair winds and following seas.