I love my boyfriend, we have been together since May and we always use condoms but yesterday I opened the condom and I gave it to him to use it and when we finished having sex he told me that he didn’t use it and I saw it unused. I went crazy, I don’t know why I trust him but I have the right to be angry. My point is that it’s not his decision, it’s our decision. So what should I do? Should I be angry at him and what should I say to him? Please help me. Thanks.
Val
You have every right to feel the way you do. Be honest and forthright as you have been here. What he did was incredibly irresponsible and and it would be wise to seek the guidance of a licensed therapist who can you both on respect and boundaries, among other things. That is if you choose to continue the relationship. Don't forget to get yourself tested, and ask him to do the same.
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