I’m sexually attracted to guys but I’ve never had feelings for a guy. Does this mean I’m gay?
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If you are sexually attracted to guys, in addition to women, that means one thing for you. If you are attracted to only to men or more so to men, then it sounds like you are probably gay. Without knowing how old you are, the fact that you have never had romantic feelings for a particular guy, doesn't give much information. Have you ever had romantic feelings for a woman? If not, it sounds as though you just haven't fallen in love yet. Sexual attraction is a huge factor for all human beings, in falling in love. When people ask if certain things mean they are gay, they generally already know if they are. The safest bet is that if you sexually desire men instead of women, then you are gay. I'd like to know more about your situation. How old are you? What are your feelings about the idea of being gay? Do you think you are and worry about it? Do you know anybody who is openly gay, happy and productive in life? Assuming you are relatively young, have you spoken about your thoughts with an open minded adult, with whom you feel comfortable? This can be a tricky one. If your parents are supportive, that is great. If you think they would not be, then you should probably speak with other more supportive people, before you speak with your parents. If you can tell us the name of a major city near you and a little more about your situation we'll help you located support resources near you. Please write back tot us.
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