Should I come out at 13 years old? I’m pretty sure (like 85% sure) I’m gay but there is this girl that I really like but not sexually. I think I love her personality but I’m confuesd about it. I seem to have two completely diffirent sides of me like I’m completely straight when at school and in public but at home I feel… well gay I suppose and I fantasise about men alot. I can’t actually think about women sexually