Should I tell my best friend (maybe straight) that I’m gay and I love him? Well, this is going to be an essay so here I go… I’m a guy and I really really like my best friend, he’s so amazingly perfect. He doesn’t think he is but my heart literally skips a beat when I see him, no matter how upset I am or angry he just makes me happy again. So anyway, we’ve known eachother since The first day or school, and he’s a very tactile person, always touching or pulling me around ( some of which I like 😉 ). So, recently figuring I that I’m gay I decided to do what I’ve always wanted to do and tell him that I love him… Except I haven’t yet. My friend has told me that he likes me but the thing is we don’t know if he’s gay! I’m so confused and I wouldn’t care if it was some other person, but because it’s him- it means alot! We kind of flirt, mainly being nasty to eachother but in a kind of I love you really kind of way, so back to the question, should I tell him I’m gay… And I like him, without ruining our friendship? I wouldve told a crush by now and if they said no, yeh I’d be upset but not majorly. But with him it’s different, if he backed away and was odd about it then I would be so upset, he means more to me than my sister- and I love my sister alot! So yeh, pleaseeeeeee help me!!!