Hi, I’m breaking up with my bf though I don’t want to let him go. We’ve been together for 5 months. He’s the best guy I ever met and I know he wants to stay with me. The problem is sexual. I’ve always been a top and I’m sick of being a  dildo. My bf doesn’t seem to be interested in being versatile with me. We’ve talked several times because I haven’t been able to have my hard-on during sex anymore lately and he noticed that I’m not enjoying it as much as he is. I didn’t say the exact words but I’ve said enough for anyone to understand that I’d like to bottom for him or that my ass needs attention just like his. Am I wrong for not saying the exact words? Or am I right that he’s maybe getting me but just pretending not to understand? Has anyone had a similar experience? what’s your advice?