I’m a woman and I have a friend who’s in a long term homosexual relationship. I know this guy for about six months and we see each other very often and talk a lot about a variety of topics. We’ve talked about personal things, but I’ve never felt comfortable enough to ask him some questions. I’m curious about his past, did he have sexual and romantic experiences with women, but I don’t know how to start a conversation about these topics. I don’t want him to perceive me as being nosy and I wouldn’t want to offend him in any possible way. I would like to know is he bisexual, but it would feel too awkward to ask him such a thing. Are there any signs by which I could tell he’s bisexual?
Sean
Without knowing each of you, I can only speak generally. Once you realize that your questions are sincere and that you just want to understand your friend's life better, the easier it will be for you to ask them. Let your friend know that you are curious about the things in his life that has made him the good friend that he has become. Don't make asking the questions too big a deal, just tell him that these are things you'd like to ask him about. I think you'll find most men have no problem answering questions like this. I dated women until I was 35, so I assure you I got a ton of questions after I switched over to guys. I liked that people wanted to understand better. Good luck and let us know how it goes.
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