I’m in a stressful spot in my life right now. At the current moment, I know I am a bisexual but I am pretty sure I’m gay. But I have fallen for my friend who’s a guy and straight. I have told him that I like him but that was early on when the feelings weren’t as strong as they are now. I don’t know what I should do I just want to be with him even tho he doesn’t think the same. But also at the same time I don’t want to drive away my best friend, I couldn’t live with out my best friend. What should I do? I need any advice at all right now.
Kelly
You've done your part, you told him how you felt. He's not interested and you need to accept and respect that. It's time to move on. Enjoy your friend as a friend - you can't make someone love you.
I feel your pain. I had a crush on my best friend growing up, but she was straight. Even today I wonder what could have been (mostly because I never had the guts to tell her how I felt) but I wouldn't trade the last 20 years of friendship for what most likely would have been a fleeting romance at that age.
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