I am seeing this man that I like a lot but the sex part has me wondering if maybe he is bi or gay. 1.He never seems to get really hard. 2. He want’s to give me more Oral sex than actual sex. 3. He doesn’t come inside me, always jacks off to get his cookie. 4. The craziest thing I have ever been asked to do by a man, he wanted me to use a dildo on him. He said he wanted to know how it felt for me when he did me that way. I’m so confused.
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I can’t tell you if your BF is straight, gay, bi, questioning, curious, straight but curious, gay but curious, transitioning, coming out, closeted, or the multitude other labels we put on people. I can tell you that I have yet to meet a gay man that likes to perform oral sex on women. Most usually crinkle their face when the subject comes up. If he likes to have sex with both men & women, then he is bi. A lot of gay men dated women before they came out of the closet.