Hi, I am just curious and a little unsure and I need some advice. First of all, I am a straight girl, but a major supporter of the LGBT community. I do not mean to stereotype or be offensive in any way with my curiosity. Basically, there are these two guys at my school, (and though I would never say anything) I think they are gay. The problem is neither of them are out, but they seem like a secret gay couple, except I kind of like one of the guys. I find it would be rude to ask, and I don’t think I would get an honest answer anyway. I def. have a small crush on him, but I don’t know…I don’t want to waste my time. He is really funny, and totally hot, but I still cannot tell if he is gay…or bi. I think he is gay but I am not sure, I was wondering what a gay guy might think about this. See, both of these guys walk with a slight sway to their hips, and have slightly effeminate voices. They pretend to practice anal sex in the hallways all the time, and I heard one of them moaning. I saw one of them ‘teasingly’ kiss the other one on the neck. Both of them sit really close and stare into each others eyes when they talk, and they FLIRT a lot! They like to touch each other a lot, and one time I saw them (in clothes) touch each others butts. At first I thought bromance, but I think now it is way more. The guy I like can be shy sometimes, and tries to keep out of attentions way. The other one was very withdrawn from  his usual friends in the beginning of the year and got close to this guy. However he is starting to be more himself again, just…girlier. Sometimes they wear flamboyant colors. The guy I like has a hot older bro who is openly gay. These two guys have also talked about sleepovers, and they hug a lot. They ALSO have never seemed to have interests in any girls, I don’t think either of them have dated girls much.      The one I like dated a few so maybe he’s bi? I don’t know sometimes he is flirty but seems to be closer friendly like with girls. I know I am rambling but I don’t know what to think. I was hoping for advice from a (preferebly younger) gay guy. I wouldn’t care if they were, but I would like to know especially since I LIKE one of them. Do they seem like they are gay? I don’t know what to think…help please! I don’t want to waste time hoping this guy will like me if he is gay. And for some reason the guys I seem to be attracted to are gay! Is that normal? What does it mean? I am sooooo confused.