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My partner and I who is undisclosed and have been together for 1 decade. We love each other and are honest about everything we feel. I hired a female trainer and lost an incredible amt. of wt. Then a family crisis ensued and the training triggered deep feelings of pain and face some hard reality. I fell into depression and the only thing positive at that time was my trainer. I fell in love with her. I told my partner who felt sad but also told me to be honest with my trainer. My trainer and I texted every day and I gave her a lot of encouragement in life. She relied on my emotional support to get through some of her depressions, my feelings grew. She expressed words in a loving way that led me to believe it was ok to tell her. When I did, she got so upset and reported it to her management. She did not give me a chance to explain the feeling and she also dropped me as her client. My partner tried to assure her that it was ok and not to do this but it did not help. Now the trainer doesn’t want to look at me and I am left with sessions forced to see someone else. Why did she do that? Nothing ever happened because my partner was present during each session. My trainer has been in therapy for 11 years and she gets along with men only but made an exception with me. My partner thought that my trainer liked me a lot too. We both were so confused when she reported me without trying to talk with us. She become so cold and mean and blamed me for disrupting her work.

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