Val

The best way for you to turn on a dom is to show her some affection. Start by giving her some flowers, even just one will show her you're thinking about her. Compliment her, cook her a dinner or take her out, plan a fun activity togethor, or just take an active interest in what she has to say. A simple smile will go a long way in terms of turning on your dom. From there the plumbing is the same, so you can handle the rest.