I have been a crossdresser for almost all my life. I have always felt as though I am a member of the opposite sex! About four years ago, I started a program with hormones. I stopped. It wasn’t because I was scared, I was showing signs of femininity, and it showed. I wouldn’t have known except for male co-workers started with comments that would make a biological girl smile! About a year and a half ago, my erections got few to none. My male sex drive has vanished. Lately I have had feminine fantasies while at work. Where is this headed, or is it that I am just putting off the inevitable?
Sexuality and gender identity is a complex field and no group, Gay, Straight, or anything in between can lay claim to what is or should be correct. Follow your inner compass as to what feels right for you. Kudos to you for having the strength and wisdom to be your own person. There are no time frames in this aspect. Be cautious and safe because there are a lot of hate crimes perpetrated against LGBTQ people.