I need help with this bi thing. My 17yr old virgin son told me today with his therapist that he is bi. When I asked how do you know since your a virgin, all I got was the deer in the headlights look. I want to know how I can politely ask him, if he realizes that sex between men means he will either get fucked or fuck someone in the ass … Or he will either suck a dick or get his sucked??? I tried to talk to my best friend and she said I was being crass. I said I’m just keeping it real. We’ll long story short, she was offended and didn’t want to talk any more. But I need an answer to my question!?!? I grew up in CA, so I don’t really care what you are as long as you don’t press me to sign up! It doesn’t matter to me if he is Bi, Gay, Heterosexual, Transgender, or something else! What matters is how do I ask the right questions without him thinking, I’m crass or being rude!?!? And that he knows and believes that I do and will love him no matter whatever it is that he is! I’m hoping that someone, anyone from this site will answer me! I’ve searched various blogs and web sites for the last 5 hours, with no response. Than you in advance, mother of a confused boy.