Hi! I’m kind of dating a girl who has not yet come out. Which I’m completely cool with. The problem is we both joke a lot, and even flirt on the phone, but when we’re going out, we’re Always in public and I’m afraid of saying something that can be overheard by someone or make any kind of physical contact, because I don’t want to get her in trouble. In the beginning, I was just waiting for her to make the first move, so I knew it was ok to speak freely or some friendly touching. But now, I’m starting to think that I may have misunderstood the situation. And asking her to meet somewhere private sounds kind of wrong since we’ve been on several coffee dates, but we have not kissed yet.